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Post by LIBARYKEEPER483 on Aug 3, 2018 11:04:10 GMT
Now I know none of you guys are grade a psychiatrist but I feel if I were to talk about it with people maybe it would help me get over it I have been having nightmares of mutilated people and I always remember the exact details of them
Here's one I remember (I woke up almost screaming from it) I was on a plane with a group of people, we were chatting and having a great time until someone opened up the escape hatch. People were sucked out and the plane crashed into a deep creak with me still in it.I woke up in the creak a night surrounded by submerged wreckage and because of that I was stuck. As I floated in the creek waiting for someone to come rescue me I could feel things touching my feet and I knew exactly what it was. Some people eventually found me and help me out and I did not tell them what happened. I went back to the creek later with a large fishing pole in hopes of salvaging something. I fished until I grabed on to something, my heart sank. I pulled it up and this was staring me in the face. A mutilated face beyond recognition eyes cold and white. I haven't been more terrified in my life. It woke me up almost instantaneously.
I've been having dreams like this over and over again and I don't know how to stop them. I don't play gore games and neither do I watch gorry movies. If anyone has some advice or something that could help me deal with this then I'd appreciate it.
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Post by Ghost RiderXB9R on Aug 3, 2018 11:25:51 GMT
Some meds can give you crazy and very vivid dreams. Melatonin as a sleep aid did it to me. Here is what Web MD has to say about nightmares. link
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LIBARYKEEPER483
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Post by LIBARYKEEPER483 on Aug 3, 2018 11:36:37 GMT
Some meds can give you crazy and very vivid dreams. Melatonin as a sleep aid did it to me. Here is what Web MD has to say about nightmares. linkI do take melatonin but they've happened even when I stopped, it's always the same thing, a face.
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Post by chimonakimi on Aug 3, 2018 14:18:18 GMT
Do you have anything or anyone stressing you? Or do you have anything possibly sitting in the back of your mind stressing you without you realising it?
I tend to find that the more I'm stressed, the more disturbing my dreams are.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 14:28:33 GMT
LK, do you read or watch the news a lot? I did a few years ago. I would dream about stories I'd read. It usually had to do with terrorists (which I worried about). Have you watched anything violent or been worrying about anything? I personally find when there is a lot on my mind--stress or worry--that I'll remember my dreams a lot more and they'll be disturbing. I've also had frightening dreams after seeing movies with violent content. If you are worried about anything, maybe you could write down the things you're worried about and why on paper. Ask yourself--whose responsibility is it? Is it your responsibility? Things that fall in your responsibility would be like you need to do homework, clean your room, or whatever else. If it's something that you have no control over like the possibility of a school shooting, plane crash, etc--that would not be your responsibility and therefore you'd need to purpose not to worry about that.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 15:00:54 GMT
Another thought came to mind. You've mentioned watching The Walking Dead--aren't those people mutilated?
You seem to be someone who feels the need to prepare for everything and maybe needs to rescue others. I've thought that from your strategies of preparation and hearing how you responded in your dream. Anyway, maybe some of this will be helpful to you.
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Post by Snorelacks on Aug 3, 2018 17:45:25 GMT
Library...have you contemplated talking to your parents about your dreams? Contrary to popular teenager belief, parents are not ogres, and they do have their children's best interests in mind.
It's extremely hard to know why you're having the specific dreams you're having. I have friends I flew with that continue to have vivid dreams of events that happened during our Desert Storm, Somalia, Rwanda, Bosnia operations; however, I haven't been able to remember any of my dreams or even if I dream at all going back to 1994 and our missions over Rwanda. Drives my wife nuts, but I wake up every morning having had a restful nights sleep. Like I said, there's so many things that could affect why you have the dreams you do.
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Post by LIBARYKEEPER483 on Aug 3, 2018 18:40:25 GMT
Library...have you contemplated talking to your parents about your dreams? Contrary to popular teenager belief, parents are not ogres, and they do have their children's best interests in mind. It's extremely hard to know why you're having the specific dreams you're having. I have friends I flew with that continue to have vivid dreams of events that happened during our Desert Storm, Somalia, Rwanda, Bosnia operations; however, I haven't been able to remember any of my dreams or even if I dream at all going back to 1994 and our missions over Rwanda. Drives my wife nuts, but I wake up every morning having had a restful nights sleep. Like I said, there's so many things that could affect why you have the dreams you do. I really don't know what's causing them, It's been a long time since I played a gorry game or watched a gorry movie. The dreams start off normal then go from 0-100 in a fraction of a second. When I was in the creek I could feel the bodies touching my legs....but that didn't really scare me, but the part with the fishing pole did. It's just something about a lifeless face that brings me to the highest form of terror.
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Post by Valkyrie on Aug 3, 2018 18:43:24 GMT
Library...have you contemplated talking to your parents about your dreams? Contrary to popular teenager belief, parents are not ogres, and they do have their children's best interests in mind. It's extremely hard to know why you're having the specific dreams you're having. I have friends I flew with that continue to have vivid dreams of events that happened during our Desert Storm, Somalia, Rwanda, Bosnia operations; however, I haven't been able to remember any of my dreams or even if I dream at all going back to 1994 and our missions over Rwanda. Drives my wife nuts, but I wake up every morning having had a restful nights sleep. Like I said, there's so many things that could affect why you have the dreams you do. I really don't know what's causing them, It's been a long time since I played a gorry game or watched a gorry movie. The dreams start off normal then go from 0-100 in a fraction of a second. When I was in the creek I could feel the bodies touching my legs....but that didn't really scare me, but the part with the fishing pole did. It's just something about a lifeless face that brings me to the highest form of terror. Are you under stress, is there something that's bothering you? even the slightest bit of stress can cause a nightmare at times
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Post by LIBARYKEEPER483 on Aug 3, 2018 19:12:37 GMT
I really don't know what's causing them, It's been a long time since I played a gorry game or watched a gorry movie. The dreams start off normal then go from 0-100 in a fraction of a second. When I was in the creek I could feel the bodies touching my legs....but that didn't really scare me, but the part with the fishing pole did. It's just something about a lifeless face that brings me to the highest form of terror. Are you under stress, is there something that's bothering you? even the slightest bit of stress can cause a nightmare at times I keep it in the back of my mind but I am stressed about school, but I have no clue how that would have anything to do with dead people
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Post by Valkyrie on Aug 3, 2018 19:20:57 GMT
Are you under stress, is there something that's bothering you? even the slightest bit of stress can cause a nightmare at times I keep it in the back of my mind but I am stressed about school, but I have no clue how that would have anything to do with dead people The mind is a wonderful, complex thing and draws silly things out of thin air
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 19:42:27 GMT
I definitely wouldn't give your dreams so much thought and meaning--like why am I dreaming this? You can make it worse for yourself with all of that. I dated a guy for a short time several years ago--probably the first person I really cared about besides my family. He died a few years ago. I'm not sure why, but there are times when I remember his face in a dream and it's not really a pleasant sort of dream. It's not like I even think of him outside of the dream and using the example now. I could make myself crazy wondering why I'm dreaming of a person who died. But it really wouldn't help anything. Not to make your nightmares a light thing. It's bothering you or you wouldn't have wanted to talk about it. Like Snore said, your parents know you better than anyone. It's possible that if you talked to them about this, they could help comfort you and give emotional support.
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Post by chimonakimi on Aug 3, 2018 20:18:16 GMT
Are you under stress, is there something that's bothering you? even the slightest bit of stress can cause a nightmare at times I keep it in the back of my mind but I am stressed about school, but I have no clue how that would have anything to do with dead people Dreams are different person to person, one person could dream about anything, they don't tend to hold much relevant meaning, it's more the general feeling that matters. If school is stressing you, then that's what is causing it, find the stress, find a solution
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Post by je55bunn1 on Aug 4, 2018 6:26:24 GMT
It's really good you've summoned the courage to talk about your dreams to other people. It can be a hard thing to do.
I would start keeping a diary on the dreams you have. I would recommend starting your nightly entry a couple of hours before when you would go to bed. What you did, ate, time you actually turned off physically to sleep. If you have a dream, write down details, who was there, why you were there; stuff like that. Random I know, but if you do end up seeking professional help with your dreams, you'll have written info at hand so you're not trying to remember in great detail when questioned by the person giving you help.
You could also attempt to drive the dream and see if you can disrupt it a bit. If you're awake enough. When the people arrive to rescue you, tell them what you know. See what they say. Or research how aircraft doors work in flight and use logic to disrupt the image of the door just opening in flight. If you notice enough you can sometimes use logic to let yourself know it's a dream, not reality.
I say this because a few years ago I was refuelling jets on a 12 hour shift for nearly 5 months straight. I lost my friggen mind. It was 7pm start 7am finish. I was by myself doing alot of work for 1 person that was ideally meant for 2 or 3 people. I was single and the airbase I was at was in the middle of nowhere. But i'd have dreams that there was a python (aka Anaconda movie), in my room, in my bed, or near my bed, and I'd go ape sh#$. I'd smash my room up, looking for this thing, heart pumping, eyes bulging in fright. I'm not a fan of snakes. But eventually, after the 3rd or 4th room tossing, I'd start to question myself why there'd be a python in my 2nd storey barracks room. So I would check myself as soon as I woke up with that feeling of impending doom. But up until then the python was friggen REAL hahah
That was stress doing it to me, over a long period of time I'd slowly get worn down by it.
Maybe your stressed, I dunno. Keep a diary and see what you observe.
You probably need to talk to someone about it. Not a psych initially, but a human, just to get it off your chest physically. Mum or Dad could be a start. But I'd talk to them not as a teenager to a parent, but as an adult to an adult. To kind of get the message across quickly so there's no doubt that you're not being dramatic. Parent's at times can doubt or downplay things, particularly if they're busy with somthing else. Not all are like that but some can be.
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